We often see that brothers will cry loud, bashing and punching due to "envy" which is common for families with more than one child.
While many parents try to understand that Envy of children does not mean "they were not loving" . But some circumstances may also cause parents to sit and edgy to pondering what to do with that small wars. This is tricked some suggestions in the conduct of the parents.
First, "do not prefer any party," parents must always emphasize that "No one a favor". And must show to the children that you understand them both sides. To protect children not to hurt.
Step two, "not too flattering," Some children like competitive contest. always love to be a winner. So parents need to learn habits of each child as well. To avoid praising one child too many, if you compliment a child who can learn good grades, commend to another child with some of his good things as well. That is the parents need to observe the behavior or exemplary performance of each child regularly.
Step three "share the work to all children equally," surely that if parents assign the work to one child to do alone. While other child do not. The child who works must hurt.
Step Four "let elder brother help treat younger brother", just some easy jobs to take care his younger brother, it will make children proud to help parents. They also make commitments and proud to be elder brother.
While many parents try to understand that Envy of children does not mean "they were not loving" . But some circumstances may also cause parents to sit and edgy to pondering what to do with that small wars. This is tricked some suggestions in the conduct of the parents.
First, "do not prefer any party," parents must always emphasize that "No one a favor". And must show to the children that you understand them both sides. To protect children not to hurt.
Step two, "not too flattering," Some children like competitive contest. always love to be a winner. So parents need to learn habits of each child as well. To avoid praising one child too many, if you compliment a child who can learn good grades, commend to another child with some of his good things as well. That is the parents need to observe the behavior or exemplary performance of each child regularly.
Step three "share the work to all children equally," surely that if parents assign the work to one child to do alone. While other child do not. The child who works must hurt.
Step Four "let elder brother help treat younger brother", just some easy jobs to take care his younger brother, it will make children proud to help parents. They also make commitments and proud to be elder brother.