One problem is that when children begin to represent themselves and start grown enough to make decision to do something. Many parents may be a similar problem in the behavior of children. Children's words may be offensive. It seems that. Understanding between parents and children will find more difficulty than in the past. But not good if patents have to interact in the tune to the kid who are putting the sound to them.
What parents should do first is to understand him. What is a child's development, he started looking at himself as the main. Children this age will always think he is correct. We listen to him before and try to ask him to clarify why think so. Parents and children have to share. For example. If children argue that this is a toy he bought then we need to ask him where did he take money to buy. We must ask why and she said reasonably. Or if he does not do homework. But tell a lie that he made. We need to tell children that do not argue. Because it is not good. If homework has already benn done then bring their parents to see it. We must believe the evidence then before gradually follow. We must not reproach. If homework is not completed, That is not completed. Find a solution and cool him. While parents need is patience and understanding with children's behavior. If adults start listening with understanding why a child is less controversial. But if we use a power, children will not. If parents use loudness, when children grow they will have the freedom to do so the same parents.
However, when the debate has often come with emotion. If children use the voice, parents must be alert. Whether by the word or tune because parents need to manage the emotions of the child before. Otherwise he would not listen to anything.
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